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		<title>Fail! Learn to Learn From Other People&#8217;s Mistakes</title>
		<link>http://ministryallies.com/2009/09/fail-learn-to-learn-from-other-peoples-mistakes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:05:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nick Arnold</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm not sure what the fascination is with FailBlog. I read it regularly, always busting my guts at the stupidity of some people. I think to myself, "I would never do that!"]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure what the fascination is with <a href="http://failblog.org">FailBlog</a>. I read it regularly, always busting my guts at the stupidity of some people. I think to myself, &#8220;<em>I</em> would never do that!&#8221;</p>
<p>This past weekend our church put together an event, and while I didn&#8217;t do anything worthy of the FailBlog, I certainly made some mistakes. And I post these mistakes here so that other people won&#8217;t make the same ones.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-379" title="highextreme" src="http://ministryallies.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/highextreme.jpg" alt="highextreme" width="300" height="225" /><strong>The event: </strong>We organized an event called the Cool Water Tour (a name I stole from the church I used to work at) where we hit up Raging Waters water park in San Dimas and Zuma Beach in Malibu. We stayed overnight at a couple church member&#8217;s homes and spent a few hours each evening up at the church doing worship, activities, and a message.</p>
<p>Our theme was pirates! and our theme verse was Matthew 6:21, &#8220;Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.&#8221; We focused on the reality that our behaviors are influenced by our values.</p>
<p>While a lot of things went well, there were a few gaping holes that needed to be filled.</p>
<h3>Here are some mistakes I made:</h3>
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<li><strong>I did not begin preparing for the event soon enough.</strong> If you think it will take X amount of weeks to prepare for an event (get the word out, plan a schedule, recruit leaders, prepare lessons, book activities, etc.), multiply that by 3 for a more accurate measure of how long it will take. I left myself one month to plan a 3-day weekend trip, which might seem like a lot of time, but I would have better served my students and myself had I left two more months open. This is especially true for parents who are spending the money! Fail.</li>
<li><strong>I did not make sure everyone had a ride for the whole weekend. </strong>Double check every place in your schedule where students will need to be transported and make sure everyone has a ride. This last weekend, I had one leader need to leave early, but I did not consider he was a ride for at least 4 kids. I had to ask another adult to drive at the last minute. Fail.</li>
<li><strong>I did not clearly communicate to my leaders.</strong> For some reason, I always think that they are on board with my thoughts, as if we were somehow telepathic. One of my leaders thought she was merely chaperoning, until I dropped the bomb that she was leading two discussion times with the girls. Fail.</li>
<li><strong>I did not expect to pay for parking.</strong> Silly thing for me, living in LA. Fail.</li>
<li><strong>I let the kids bring whatever they wanted into the water park.</strong> I had to take a few bags back out to the car after they did not fit into the lockers. Fail. Shoes/flip-flops, sunscreen, and a towel should do.</li>
<li><strong>I did not charge enough for the event. </strong>These costs were absorbed by the youth budget (which isn&#8217;t very large, anyway):<strong> </strong>parking, lockers; I did not charge enough for gas expenses; I did not charge enough to cover the cost of the other leaders, who I invited to come for free. Fail.</li>
<li><strong>Expect to say everything at least three times</strong>, even if you were completely clear the first time (because obviously you weren&#8217;t).</li>
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<p>Overall, I would consider the event a success, and many of the kids said they had lots of fun. I&#8217;ll have to quiz them and see if they remember any of the talks we did. <img src='http://ministryallies.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<h3>Your Turn</h3>
<p>What sort of mistakes can you use to teach others?</p>
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